The experience and the feelings I had that day never really left me. It genuinely shook my confidence. I still find myself replaying the events of the morning, my own experience of the meeting and the organizer’s request. I keep asking myself if I really do speak too much. Am I long-winded? Should I have tried to limit my comments after all? And if you know me, you might be smiling right now because I do like to ask lots of questions, share ideas and attempt to find solutions in these forums. Therefore, that one request (or criticism) made me second guess my participation not only in that panel experience but in everything that I have participated in since—even as an audience member.